The road less traveled…

My partner and I were attempting to become pregnant. For many reasons – including my sanity – we have put that on the back burner for now and are just working on walking down the road less traveled. We've been through Katrina – moved to Colorado – and our next adventure is headed to California.

Stress… September 23, 2010

Filed under: 2WW,Family,Hurt — 2Lesbians&Baby @ 2:28 pm
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So in my current situation, stress is not a good thing, right?  Yea, right.  Well, my mother’s fiance has been living with us for a while.  HE came up here initially to help with Lori, but also to get a job so that my mother can eventually move up here as well.  This week he’s going home to visit, so we brought him to the airport on Wednesday.  When we got home, there was an alarm going off in his room, so I went up to turn it off.  On the bed I find letters from some bitch that have been written to him and sent to MY house.  In these letters, this girl goes on and on about how she loves him and blah blah blah.  Now, this is MY mother that you are fucking around on.  You are in MY house.  You are giving out MY address.  UGHH

Needless to say, I called my mother and tell her what’s going on.  She calls him and he says that it’s a girl who wrote him but he told her not to write him again because he was only her friend and blah blah blah.  Of course, I don’t believe him.  And, of course, she does.  I get into his email and Facebook (quite the easy task) and find that not only is he receiving love letters….he is receiving pictures of all these women’s lady parts.  NOT ONLY is he receiving these pictures, he’s SENDING PICTURES OF HIMSELF, EXPOSED, to these women.  NOT ONLY is he sending those pictures, but they were taking IN MY OFFICE SITTING IN MY CHAIR ON MY COMPUTER AND MY CAMERA.  NOT ONLY is that the case, but he also has a profile on HORNYMATCHES.COM where he states that he is looking for women in our area for one on one sex.

I call my mother back and tell her this.  She is not near as upset as I want her to be.  Seems like she is not going to do anything about it.  WHAT THE FUCK EVER.  Lori and I decide he’s not coming back to our house.

Here’s where it gets complicated.  Obviously she’s going to stay with him.  The problem is not letting him come back here doesn’t hurt him – it hurts her.  He can’t get a job down there for ANYTHING.  Therefore, he’s coming back.  Back to my house.  And there’s not really anything I can do about it…




One Response to “Stress…”

  1. MJ Says:

    The hell there isnt! It is your house, you make the rules.Your mother is a grown woman, she is in charge of taking care of herself. If she wants to turn a blind eye that is her choice, it is not your job to step in a protect her if she makes that choice.I know I am being blunt and I sound heartless and of course it is easier said than done. But your job and Lori's job is to make sure you are in a healthy place without stress. This guys presence doesnt aide in that goal. Dont make yourself powerless in this situation. It is your home you hold all the power. If he can't get a job there, he can try elsewhere, but it doesn't have to be where you are.

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